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Monday, July 15, 2013

Sexual Signals: Availability, Willingness, Challenge

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The woman in the photograph at left is virtually screaming her message in non-verbal but obvious cues, designed to send out, at minimum three messages, each and all related to a very physical seduction.

And none of these seductive signs is related remotely to the provocative manner in which she is dressed or her physical attractiveness by average US "typical" male standards. In fact she is a study in temptation, persuasion and a potential call (to the right bidder) to action.

There is a seduction in the making, just by examining this picture.

No details are necessary.

1) The twisting of her hips and lower midsection is associated with flexibility, fitness, eagerness to move and sultry sexual activity. Further it thrusts her chest partially forward (straining confinement), while putting her hips in a passive, receptive position;

2) Her straight forward, full-contact facial expression and position, as well as her slightly cocked right shoulder [as if there were a chip on it] presents an opportunity and a challenge, if you were to dare to take it. She is signifying courage, haughtiness and self-confidence, but she is accentuating her look of accessibility and willingness;

3) Her right hand, which is tugging downward at her jeans is indicative of aggressiveness, and is a way to subconsciously (on the part of both the young woman and her quarry) cause the observer's eyes to complete an intensified visual triangle of her right shoulder, her left breast, and her right hand, tugging at her jeans. The viewer (presumably her quarry), as a matter of courtesy would try to maintain eye-contact, but his/her peripheral vision would force involuntary repeated looks at the seductive triangle which she has accomplished without even moving.

Her principal mode of non-verbal communication is posture, as opposed to gesture, and it is indeed quite potent. It is critically important to remember that body-talk is not necessarily conveyed through motion or gesture or mobile signalling -- our message is often made very clear just by our posture or stance.

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Friday, April 05, 2013

Email Subject Lines That Hook The Recipient (And Make Your Letter Seem More Important Than Any Others)

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In my personal opinion, speaking just as Douglas E. Castle, for himself -- "Every Email Subject Line Should Be A Hooker." Amen. Please allow me to explain.

An unexciting, irrelevant email subject line, without either a confirmation of an appointment or a call to action will be received with less impact than its exciting, relevant and timely alternative. Make your email subject lines relevant (to the topic of the email correspondence), strong (the first five words are the most important by far -- the same as applies to news headlines, slogans and in blog posting) and with a call to action or a confirmation of some matter between sender and recipient.

By the way, the two things that annoy this author the most regarding email protocol are these and they are incredibly common:

1) An ever-growing list of copied parties to an email correspondence that no longer involves them. Please minimize the number of cc'd parties on any email to the minimal, and even then, only to the parties it applies to. You can bcc all you'd like if you want a party to see the content of the letter without revealing his/her identity and without having them added to a chain of perpetual parties to the correspondence which follows; and

2) Emails between two or among more parties which re-cycle the same subject line for days, months (or even years) after the subject has long become irrelevant. In fact, people mistakenly delete these quite frequently as if they were duplicates.

Following is a copy of an email [edited to avoid disclosing the identity of the offending party] Where my subject line (as the sender) was: "Change Your Email Subject Lines When Writing To Me."
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Bernie:

I will ring you up on Skype at 4:30 pm my local time (Eastern).

In the future, you might consider changing the subject line headings in your email correspondence to avoid confusion. Most people prefer when the subject line is relevant to the new correspondence instead of a sender's perpetual re-cycling of a subject line from some earlier correspondence which is no longer appropriate.

Constant replication of historic subject lines in a series of emails back and forth (despite the change of subject) makes it difficult for the recipient to categorize them for prioritization, filing, and deletion.

Thank you.

Douglas

Douglas E. Castle
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Sincerely, friends, followers and colleagues - what else could I say to this offender, who (I might add) has an incredibly high rate of recidivism, either because he is attempting to irk me, or because he is suffering from a deteriorating mental condition. If it's the former, I will continue my barrage of corrective assaults; if the latter, then [Man! Do I feel guilty even thinking this possible!] no amount of corrective emails or blog postings on the subject of communications would ever help.

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Boo-Rah!

Douglas E. Castle

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