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Sunday, October 07, 2012

Secret Signals: The Romney/Obama Debate - An Explosion Of Verbal And Non-Verbal Cues, Clues And 'Tells'.

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The debate between Governor Romney and President Obama was a study in signalling, messaging, body language, posturing and communications styles.

The non-verbal signals alone were enough to write a doctoral thesis.

 The body language was intense to the point of exaggeration.

The speaking styles, vocal pitch, and dynamics (changes in voice volume levels) were wonderful studies in and of themselves. The question answering techniques, when questions regarding contested or controversial issues were posed to each of the presidential candidates by the moderator, were 'tells,' as any good interrogator or criminologist would call them. All in all, last night was a treasure trove of items for analysis for my friends, colleagues, followers and all readers of The SENDING SIGNALS BLOG.

Most notable was the difference in the candidates' respective energy levels (and energy 'auras') at the beginning of the debate, during the entire proceedings and at the very end, with each of the candidates acknowledging the audience with a wave -- although (as referenced in the image above), the two men's waves signaled very different inner emotions and acknowledged (or imagined) outcomes emerging from the debate.

In one review of the debate by a body language expert, it was stated that Mitt Romney played Captain Kirk to President Obama's Mr. Spock [a Star Trek reference, for those of you who are non-Trekkies...which makes me so sad for you...]. It was a crude metaphor, but quite appropriate as a summation. One man was a leader (a fearless decision-maker), and the other was an encyclopedic academician. No guesswork is required in terms of which was which.

Here are some fine highlights worth noting from my (Douglas E. Castle) perspective:

1) TIES: The President wore a blue tie, speaking of calming, palliating, and symbolizing water. Romney wore a red tie, speaking of aggression, decisiveness, "flagging the bull" and symbolizing fire;

2) ENERGY/ POSTURE: The President stood upright, but stooped slightly, as if burdened. The Governor pushed his body weight onto one foot (a fighter's stance), and leaned in (literally) to his opponent;

3) FOCUS OF ARGUMENT: The President was professorial, trying to appeal to reasoning and intellect. The Governor addressed emotional issues and spoke to simple needs, fears and hopes. On Gilligan's Island, if the Governor was Thurston Howell III, the President was the Professor.

The people in the audience were there to choose a leader, or affirm their choice of a leader.

It is axiomatic from The Taking Command Blog that leaders give orders, and their underlings or advisors, give assessments and explanations.

For the reasons above, The President allowed Governor Romney to assume the Commander's position in the debate -- many people will extrapolate this to the choice of president and Commander-In-Chief.

Douglas E. Castle





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Monday, March 19, 2012

Quiet But Deadly - Soft Voice - "Sotto Voce"

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Yes. This article was originally going to be titled "Silent But Deadly," but then I realized many of my readers would be aghast at my lack of judgment and taste. Puns are entertaining, but on a serious note, utilizing a well-modulated soft, unwavering voice [the proverbial 'whisper in someone's ear'] is one of the most powerful ways to make your words carry serious intensity.

In individual cases (one person to another), it makes the information seem that much more important. In group cases (where you are speaking to a crowd or lecturing or presenting to a group), it forces your audience to be stock still, to strain to hear your every measured syllable, to focus on what you are saying (and tune out all other distractions, almost hypnotically), and to give every one of your words more impact. Your audience will generally lean forward in order to hear you more clearly. This is reflexive behavior.

Sotto voce, Italian for "soft voice" is always interpreted by the Human Subconscious and social conditioning, as foreshadowing a shared and important secret. It is a tool that few military-trained or public speaking-trained learn how to master... or even to use effectively.

If you gently make bodily contact (in an individual-to-individual case, where you gently touch the other person's shoulder or forearm, you will anchor the content of your message more deeply by the added element of associative touch.

The cliche is that "Silence is golden" (and it may well be in an interrogation), but do not forget, to paraphrase an old aphorism, when you speak softly, you automatically carry a big stick.

Douglas E Castle for The Sending Signals Blog.

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